Shirley Jacobson, a beloved soul born on September 11, 1952, in Monroe, Michigan, peacefully passed away at the age of 72 on February 8th, in Evart, Michigan. Her departure marks the end of an era for her family and friends, but her legacy of love and strength will continue to inspire those who knew her, especially within the communities connected to Big Rapids obituaries and beyond.
Shirley was the cherished daughter of the late Jesse and Jane Hyden, and a loving sister to her predeceased brothers, Phillip Hyden Sr. and Roger Hyden. Her close bond with her father, her deep connection with her mother, and her unwavering affection for her brothers shaped the foundation of her nurturing spirit. She was predeceased by her late husband, Howard Vallade, and her late partner, Edward Charlie Beers, each holding a special place in her life’s journey.
She is survived by her devoted companion, Tim, who stood by her side with unwavering love and care. Shirley’s family tree branches out to include her daughter, Janie Durban, and son, Charlie Edward Beers. Her joy multiplied with her grandchildren: Dana Webb, Daniel Durban, Jessica Dalton (Janie’s children), and Caitlin Elizabeth Beers (Charlie’s daughter). The family further blossomed with great-grandchildren: Zander, Bentley, Joshua, Ziggy (Dana’s children), Koda (Daniel’s child), and Trenton (Caitlin’s child), each a testament to Shirley’s enduring family legacy.
A 1970 graduate of Monroe High School, Shirley contributed her work ethic to various local establishments including the Evart Corner Store, Flach’s, Clay’s, Evart Products, and Mark IV. Beyond her professional life, Shirley’s true passion lay in sewing. Her handcrafted dish towels and pot holders were tokens of love, gifted to family and friends, embodying her caring nature. It’s comforting to imagine her heavenly abode as an endless sewing room, filled with creativity and warmth.
Known for her straightforward nature, Shirley was admired for her honesty and directness. You always knew where you stood with her, a trait appreciated for its sincerity. Yet, this directness was perfectly balanced with her wit and charm, allowing her to keep everyone on their toes while simultaneously captivating them with her warmth and humor. She had a unique ability to command respect and affection in equal measure.
Shirley possessed a vibrant and spirited side. She fondly reminisced about her red 1973 Cuda, a symbol of her youthful exuberance and independence. Her playful spirit was also evident in her humorous antics, like the time she feigned a heart attack to cure her granddaughter Dana’s hiccups – a testament to her quick wit and loving, if unconventional, methods.
Her home was always open, a sanctuary for anyone in need. Shirley’s generosity knew no bounds; she offered help even when she had little to give, embodying the true essence of a matriarch. She constantly encouraged her loved ones to aspire for more, to reach for the futures she envisioned for them. Her resilience was remarkable, highlighted by her victory over cancer, a testament to her boundless strength, perseverance, and wisdom.
An ardent animal lover, Shirley found immense companionship and joy in her dogs, Abigale and Sassy. They were her motivation during hospital stays, her drive to recover and return home. Her affection extended beyond dogs; she once cared for two pet monkeys, Mike and Jan, adorning them in doll clothes. Even recently, she expressed a desire to adopt another monkey, showcasing her lifelong love for animals. It’s heartwarming to think of all her past pets eagerly greeting her at heaven’s gates.
In quieter moments, Shirley cherished flipping through photo albums, reliving precious memories. She held immense pride for her son, Charlie, readily sharing his accomplishments. She maintained a close bond with her daughter, Janie, and valued her daily phone conversations with her children and grandchildren, including Jessica and Daniel in Florida. Despite the distance, her love and dedication to her family remained unwavering, bridging any geographical gap.
Her companion and best friend, Tim, will deeply feel her absence. Together, they shared a love for cooking, creating culinary delights for family and friends, ensuring no one left their table hungry. Tim’s devotion was evident in his constant care for Shirley, a testament to their deep and abiding love.
Shirley’s legacy is one of profound love and unwavering devotion to her family and animals. Her impact on those who knew her is immeasurable, leaving a void that is a testament to the immense love she gave. She will continue to live on through the values she instilled and the lives she touched. Until we meet again, dear Shirl, your love remains etched in our hearts.
A memorial service celebrating Shirley’s life was held at 12pm (Noon) on February 15, 2025, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Evart. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory can be made to the Osceola County Animal Shelter (231-832-5790), honoring her love for animals. Condolences can be shared online via the Tribute Wall tab on Shirley’s page at www.coreyfuneralhome.com, a space for memories and tributes within the wider context of Big Rapids area and Pioneer obituaries.
